Monday, November 29, 2010

A Great Weekend

Thanksgiving has already come and gone.  It is hard to believe it is Christmas time again!  I remember this time last year, waiting on Afton to be born.  We were so excited!  She has already celebrated her first Thanksgiving with Daddy and Mommy and we are excited about her first Christmas!

Our Thanksgiving weekend was great.  Matt and I always look forward to extended holidays because he gets time off and time to spend with Afton and I.

Matt had finished tiling and grouting our back splash in the kitchen earlier in the week, so the big parts of the kitchen are finished!  We were both excited for a break from work and kitchen work and some great family time.

The kitchen project has been such a pain, little things just kept (and keep) happening that puts the little projects off.  Example, Matt was going to put the drawer pulls on but was waiting for the template to drill the holes in the drawers.  When we finally got the template, 2 weeks after ordering it, there were not holes spaced for our drawer pulls!  Then when the holes were drilled, the screws that came with the pulls were not long enough!  Sheesh!!!  It was just little things like that the whole time, that weren't really a big deal, but were so frustrating!

So Matt decided no major work on the kitchen the four days he was off for the holiday.  Thanksgiving day was spent playing, putting up Christmas decorations and cleaning the house.  We ate a late Thanksgiving dinner just the 3 of us-and stayed in our pajamas the whole day!  It was great!!  We put up two Christmas tress this year and Afton was very interested in the tree and boxes of decorations.


We also cooked Thanksgiving dinner in our new kitchen!  It was so wonderful being able to cook and not have to go to different parts of the house to find a utensil or silverwear or a pot.  I even had counters to help me!  (it is amazing what you appreciate after you don't have something for a while!)  It wasn't a huge dinner, but we enjoyed getting to eat together.




We had been debating whether to go to Albuquerque on Black Friday.  We didn't want to deal with the crazies, but we had a little shopping to do for Christmas.  We decided to go when we got up and got ready on Friday morning.  There wasn't anything that we needed a deal on, so we decided to go and have a relaxing day of shopping in ABQ.

We got to ABQ about 10:30, made a stop at Lowes and went to the mall for about 45 minutes.  It was still pretty crowded!  We ate at Buffalo Wild Wings and went to Toys R Us to see if we could find any deals for Afton's christmas present.  I wanted to get her a little table and chair set for Christmas this year and we found the one I wanted at Toys R Us and it was the last one!  I was so excited.  We spent a little while in Barnes and Noble, looking at books, drinking Starbucks and letting Afton crawl around the Children's book section.  She loved it!  We had a great day in ABQ just spending time together.

Saturday was another lazy day.  Matt hooked up the pipes for the sink and dishwasher.  We got to do our first load of dirty dishes!  How excited were we?!  (me especially!)
Afton even got in on it.  It was hard to keep her from diving into the sink!
We had some new friends come up for dinner and we had a good time with them Saturday evening.

Sunday morning we went to church and came home to our pajamas (again!).  It snowed several times this weekend and was pretty cold, perfect weather to stay in the house and just be cozy together.

Over all we had a great weekend together.  We look forward to just family time and are quite selfish with it when we do have it!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Kitchen

Oh our wonderful kitchen.  The never ending project.  Will the stupid thing ever get done?  (really this is no jab on Matt at all!)

It has been really exciting to remodel the kitchen.  I haven't really been much help, like in past projects.  Poor Matt has had the brunt of the work and he has done a wonderful job.  It just really seems like it will never end.

As I sit here typing, Matt is in the kitchen putting up our tile back splash.  What he has up so far looks so good! 

If you saw our last kitchen (the Clown Kitchen as we like to call it) you will know how much of an update we needed.  Painted royal blue counter tops (painted!), yellow and lime green cabinets, and a two by four "pantry" (I use that term loosely, and by 2x4 I mean it was 4 shelves made out of 2x4's on the wall) beside the fridge.  Now we have beautiful nice new cabinets, a granite counter top (!!), an under mount sink and soon a beautiful tile back splash!  This is the stuff of dreams (and we never thought we would have it!).

Granted there have been our share (and someone else's share too, I think) of mishaps.  Our window had to be moved because of a wrong calculation of the cabinets (an inch makes a big difference!), shelves didn't come in the cabinets like they should have, cracked crown molding, lights being not where they should be, blah blah blah.  The list goes on, but we can see the finish line!

Through all of this, the Lord has definitely taught Matt and I patience.  Little things have happened, yes, but it could have been a LOT worse.  We are very blessed to even have a new kitchen at all!  All the hard work and trials are going to more than pay off in the end.  Can't wait to finally get everything in the cabinets! 

(Pictures soon!)

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Ten Months

It is time to add another picture to the First Year Frame for Afton.  She turned 10 months old today.  Every time she turns another month older I say that it is hard to believe she has.  What I can't believe now is that in two months she will be 1 year old!  I really think this year has been the fastest year of my life, where has it gone?  I thought today would be a good opportunity to update the blog while Matt is working downstairs and Afton is taking her morning nap.  I have a few minutes of alone time (and I have already taken a shower! woohoo!)



About a week after my last update post, Afton started crawling.  It didn't take her long to figure out how!  She never had a weird crawl, she always seemed to know what she was doing.  It was always on all fours and she gets around now!  Nothing is safe.  We really have tried not to rearrange things, but some stuff we had to put out of reach and now all our outlets have covers.  Those were the first things she went for!  I am not really sure why...


She is also a pro at pulling up now.  Anything she can pull herself up with she tries.  She is starting to climb on things too, mainly me or Daddy, but the other day she was standing on some toys to get something off the coffee table.  It was not placed there intentionally just for that, but I don't think that is far off.


"NO" has become the dreaded word in our house, not just for Afton but for Mommy and Daddy too.  Most times when she is told no her face crumples and she cries like we have crushed her or she lays on the floor and screams (literally).  I hate when she cries, but she is getting better at dealing with being told no.  I guess it really depends on the day.  The main "no"s are banging on the computer and pulling cords, pulling books off the shelf, cell phones, the remote, pulling magazines out of the magazine basket and wall outlets.  She has plenty of toys to occupy her, and normally they do, but those things listed are the ones she gets busted for over and over.  The computer is the main no-no.  She can't seem to stop though, so I am sure we will get to be pros at telling her no. It doesn't make it any easier.


Afton will point at things now.  Usually only with her right hand, with her thumb sticking up like a gun. When she is "reading" to herself or to us, she will point at pictures and jabber.  She can point to her nose and to Mommy and Daddy's noses.  Just in the last week we have added mouth to the list.  She is starting to point at things, but I am not sure she fully understands what pointing means yet.


She also loves to play with my hair.  She is usually pretty good about not yanking handfulls out (I really don't have much to spare) and I love for my hair to be played with, so as long as she isn't pulling, I let her play.  She does like to pull on Daddy's beard now that it is grown out a little  : )


She has also gotten her top two teeth in!  They came in within a day of each other and they still aren't fully in, but every day I can tell they are a little bigger.  I wondered when she would be getting more teeth and so far it is just the top two and the bottom two.  She has a little gap between the top, which I think is cute.  (we aren't sure where that came from though...)

Several things we have not yet gotten a picture of are the elusive kiss and playing Peek-a-boo.  Daddy gets way more kisses than I do, but she will give Daddy a big, wet, open mouthed kiss with tongue.  It's pretty cute (not sure how cute it would be for anyone else) and Matt seems to enjoy the attention.  : )  She has also started playing Peek-a-boo when we say "where is Afton?" or just "peek-a-boo!"  She will cover her eyes and laugh, it is her new favorite game!  (we did get the game and where is your nose on film though, finally, but a video)  She also lets us know she likes food (or pretty much anything she puts in her mouth) by saying "mmmmm" whenever she eats it.  I think I started that.  I am trying to get her to say "ahhh" after she takes a drink, but we haven't accomplished that yet.  Also, she loves to clap her hands when we say "Good job" or "yea!".  When she sees other people clapping or hears it on tv, she will clap along with it, too.  



Afton also celebrated her first Halloween.  She got her first pumpkin that was just her size.  She also got to help with Trunk or Treat at our church.  She loved watching the kids and enjoyed the sucker she got (even though by the end her face and hands were sticky and she had fuzz and hair all over the sucker and herself).  I made her costume this year.  She was a tree.  Brown pants as a trunk, I glued leaves to her shirt, she had a birds nest with a bird in it on her shoulder and a bird in her hair.  I really thought she would be pulling leaves off, but she was more interested in what was going on around her than her costume.  It didn't get to be out much because it got pretty cold, so it was covered up with blankets and a jacket.  Oh well.  : )


Afton still loves books.  She will sit and read to herself for long periods of time and she plays with her books more than the toys.  She has several little baskets of books upstairs and it is a great game to pull them all out one by one, read them and then leave them laying everywhere.  I hope she continues her love for books, we try to read to her every day in some form or another.

Afton has grown physically so much in 10 short months, but I think this month has been the one with the most growth.  Not just physically (she was 29 inches long and weighed 21 lbs 6 oz at her 9 month check up), but I really think this month Afton started understanding what we are saying.  If we tell her to do something or ask her something, she seems to know what we are talking about.  Matt and I are both amazed at each milestone that she has achieved.  It is so exciting for us to watch her grow and learn with her.  I know it won't be long and she will be walking!  Maybe that will be the update for next month!